Imagine if one of your closest friends approached you one day and told you this:
I am in a marriage with my childhood honey for a period of seventeen drama-free years, I have just discovered my dear husband lives a dual personal life. You would probably think that this development might pressure me run from this union as fast as I could, however I have stayed. Call me mad!
What recommendations would you give her? And what would YOU do if the person who made the above statement was in fact you? What would YOUR reaction be? And just so you know, I am the one who was faced with that situation!It’s a question that has preoccupied me for some time now. If one of my closest friends had shared with me something like that, I would have said that her marriage was over, particularly due to the fact the kids were now all grown up.
I am not trying to say that my husband cheated on me in the real meaning. Nevertheless he did call up a phone line where women and men communicate with one another about a number of topics and the only reason I know is because our bank called us in order to check said deal as it was the 1st time our card had been used with a phone sex chat company. Following a speedy phone call with the company in question, I realized that it was really my husband who had made the phone call.
But the reason why I have been perplexed by this whole thing is not really that I learned my beloved husband had in fact been involved in some type of a relationship with a different woman, but alternatively that it didn’t actually worry me. Of course I love my husband, honor him, have always been happy with him, however after the immediate astonishment of the discovery, I decided not to spend too much time thinking about it. And no, I am as lively while having sex as any other gal, so that it isn’t abstinence Which is making me so open minded. I truly don’t mind.
And that, in a nutshell is what troubled me. Imagine that! Another woman is intimated with my husband, even if it is only by phone, and what I have a problem with is not really his conduct, but rather my reaction to it, along with the reality I am not all that troubled about it.! I know…. I’ve got to be insane!
Would you have handled this in a different way?
Whether mobile phone sex is actually being unfaithful can be another conversation of course.