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dating in real life is difficult enough, but how about dating online? Have you ever considered trying your hand at finding love online? Maybe you should. As Christian Carter will tell you, there are a lot of advantages for women when it comes to online dating.

One huge advantage of online dating is the opportunity to skim many profiles, picking and choosing. This is a type of control that doesn’t exist in real life. You also have the power to attract the type of man you want, by creating a profile geared to attract him.

When creating a profile, you need to keep in mind that there are thousands of other women out there doing the same thing, so yours needs to stand out somehow. Reading other women’s profiles can give you a good idea of what to avoid. Storytelling is a great way to differentiate yourself from the other ladies online. Instead of describing yourself, tell a story that does it for you. This will make you stand out.

One of the first things you will want to do when you set up your profile is to set up an email account that is not in any way linked to your personal email account. This will help you to keep track of your responses, as well as keeping respondents an arm’s length away from your personal account. This will also make it easy for you to delete your account, need be.

As important as what you say is what kind of photo you post. Men are visually stimulated even more than women, so you need to make sure your photo sends the right message. Play up your best features, without being dishonest. Don’t focus on your cleavage or legs, unless you want to screen out a bunch of creeps who are only interested in one thing. Post a photo that says something about who you are and what you like, as well as showing off your good side.

Keep it light and easy, and above all, positive. Don’t list things you hate. Instead, focus on the things you love. Write about what makes you laugh, what you do for fun, and how you want to share that with the right guy. These are the sorts of things that make men want to contact you right off the bat.

Be sure to avoid any sort of negative talk about your exes or about other women. This will send the wrong message, and may turn away the man you are actually looking for.

If you stick to some of these guidelines in your profile, you will be shocked at how many responses you will get in the fist day. But don’t take it from me, go ahead and try it yourself.

There comes a time in every budding relationship when you have to go for the kiss. It could be your third time hanging out, the first date, or maybe even the same night at a bar. Either way, you have to go for the kiss in a way that’s dominant, ravishing, and sexual. To make this clear, the worst way to go for a kiss is to ask her if it’s ok to make your move. Don’t be wussy.

Here are three ways to get the kiss that will rock her world:

1) The Power Move

You need to be sitting down with drinks for this to work, but oh man is it worth it. Ross Jeffries came up with this in 1989, and it still works fabulously today. At the end of the date, you’re sitting on a couch, having drinks. You both have your drinks in hand while you’re having a conversation. While you’re talking you take your drink and put it on the table, and then take HER drink from her hand and put it on the table. Then you gently pull her in and kiss her. It’s dominant and sexy.

2) Three Question Yes-Ladder

Swinggcat invented this popular trick back in 2003. The strategy is to get the girl to agree to your standards three times before you kiss her. Start with, “Tell me, are you adventurous?” After she says yes, say “Are you spontaneous?” Then, say “How good of a kisser are you, from one to ten” After she answers (usually saying nine or ten), say “Let’s find out…” and kiss her. This is the single most consistent kissing trick I’ve ever used.

3) The Almost Kiss

A former marine named Future created this tactic a few years ago, and it’s become a favorite since. After you’ve had enough time to build some comfort with a woman, say “Now we’ve been getting to know each other, and I’m ready to take this further, but not quite to the kiss yet. We’re going to have an ‘almost kiss’ instead.” Under your instruction, she and you move your mouths very close together and agree not to kiss but just “almost” kiss. After ten minutes do this again, and so on. After a couple times, she’s bound to break the rules and kiss you.

These are by far the quickest methods of getting a kiss from a woman. Most importantly, be congruent and confident when going for the kiss, and do not fear rejection. If she turns you down, that’s no big deal. Just go for it later. When you get in the habit of kissing a woman early and frequently, you’ll find that your relationships begin a lot more passionately.

“How can I start getting my ex girlfriend back?” I bet you’re asking that question just like thousands of men do.

Having a fulfilling bond with someone somewhat puts us in a position where we are protected and loved. That’s the reason why we are plagued with pain and depression after a separation.

No wonder we are always longing to go back in time and start getting your ex girlfriend or boyfriend back whatever it takes.

Depending on the specific situation at hand, the steps you take can be the wrong one the right one.

This is where some questions to guide you come in play. Having them answered will give you ideas on getting your ex girlfriend or boyfriend back the RIGHT WAY!

Getting Your Ex Back Question No. 1: Do you still love each other? Love MUST not be mistaken for being safe and sound in a relationship or having someone to accompany you. If your reason for getting your ex back is because NOT having him/her around makes your self-esteem low, you should do some serious fixing on yourself. The bottom line is, do NOT even think about getting your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back if you don’t love him or her. And you better have an idea, too, if he/she still loves you.

Getting Your Ex Back Question No. 2: What led to the break up? Have you made the for-the-better changes? If you have no idea of what to change, even if you’re successful in getting your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back, you’ll suffer the same fate. The break-up will strike and crush your relationship within weeks. So do some serious thinking about what you need to change in you and your personality. Indeed, changes in yourself MUST be made. After all, you’re the only one capable of fixing yourself. So start the personality repairs NOW!

Getting Your Ex Back Question No. 3: Are you committed into making this work? If NOT, then it’s nothing more than a waste of time! You must be willing to exert the time and effort – the commitment needed to mend things. The same commitment MUST also come from your ex. BUT again, the effort of getting your ex girlfriend back should begin from you. Once she sees that, everything follows along with her commitment.

Your psychic identity is an expression of your psychic blueprint in the multi-dimensional universe. Your senses merge together to create the unique way you express yourself psychically, and the particular psychic way you make your presence felt in the multi-dimensional universe.

Your psychic identity is how you access all those multi-level subconscious levels of communication within yourself. It’s the mixture of all your levels of communication at a psychic level. It’s how your senses access who you are. It’s how your senses express who you are. And everyone’s senses work together differently.

For some people it’s a stronger sense of smell; whilst others rely more on their sense of touch to tell them what’s happening at that intiutive psychic level. The way you identify yourself psychically in the multi-dimensional universe is related to how your different sensory inputs come together at a communication level. If you rely on sensory input through a more accute sense of listening, that is, your audio sense, then you are not only going to communicate differently in the multi-dimensional universe, but you’ll psychically communicate differently on an everyday level with other people.

Your psychic identity isn’t just about how you communicate in this abstract multi-dimensional universe, as if it’s something ‘out there’, separate from your everyday life. Your psychic identity is how you express yourself in every way in every day of your life.

All the time you’re using your psychic identity to reach out to others in your own special sensory way, to access knowledge from others, to interact with others. Some people are able to listen and hear between the words much more easily than others. That’s part of their special psychic identity. Other people are able to intuitively read between the lines a lot more easily – that’s part of their psychic identity.

Learning about your senses is a way to learn about your psychic identity; discovering how your senses operate, in the ways that your senses operate especially for you. All this is very, very exciting – learning about a wonderful talent we have to intuitively sense our way through our day, intuitively sensing our way through our lives, intuitively sensing our way through our relationships.

Everything you do is influenced by your psychic identity, and this includes all the ways you interact with others. If in your interactions with others you consciously use your psychic identity, if it becomes the tool for how you interact with others in your own particular intuitively psychic way, them what a much more influential and powerful person you will become. Influencing others comes more easily to those people in touch with their psychic identity.

Reaching out to others at more intuitive and different levels of communication comes more easily to people who are in touch with their psychic identity. People like this are confident that they can read between the lines or hear things differently, and that they do sense things differently. They stand out in the crowd, knowing that they have a psychic identity, and that they can use it.

And you can train your senses, you can practise your senses in a way that increases your psychic ability, and therefore confirms and reinforces your psychic identity in how you interact. It’s very important to learn about your psychic identity, because the more you learn about your psychic identity, the more of an integrated whole person you’ll become. And that’s the secret in going on the journey of learning about your own intuitive and psychic ability, because learning about your psychic ability is going to put you in touch with your psychic senses, your psychic identity.

How simple it is. You can be more consciously aware of what you are doing already, be more aware of how you already intuitively naturally interact with others, and the reason being that we are using our psychic identity all the time, even at times when we are not aware that we are doing so. Just because we are not conscious that we have a psychic identity, it does not mean we are not still using it to express ourselves in our interactions with others.

In our best interests, in the best interests of how we follow our own psychic destiny, in how we relate to others, in the way we form relationships, it is wise to know about our psychic identity.

Does it ever feel like WORK meeting women?

And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you’re not even closer to your goal?

If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.

Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.

You see a girl you like, but she has a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she’s not returning or answering your calls.

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.

In your approach, you have to have the courage.

First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

Not to mention there are much higher standards for men’s behavior than women.

(Let’s not started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “beautiful.”)

Being not “extroverted” by nature can be pretty exhausting.

… I have often heard a complain about “extroversion fatigue” from a client of mine.

I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.

Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

I would have to sit down and rest!

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home and be absolutely DEAD

… from having a CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN!

Does that make any sense???

There you see the general dating fatigue. There’s an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.

I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!

The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)

All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual frustration)

I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym

I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I’ve never done before.

If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.

Your psychic identity consciously expresses your psychic blueprint in the multi-dimensional universe. It’s how your senses merge together to create your unique way of expressing yourself psychically and making your presence felt in the multi-dimensional universe.

Accessing all those multi-level realms of your subconscious is made possible through your psychic identity. It’s a unique combination of all the levels of your psychic subconscious. Who you are comes through the psychic pathways of your psychic identity. It’s the expression of who you are at that level of consciousness. And the senses work differently for everyone.

Some people have a stronger sensory sense of smell; other people rely more on a sense of touch to give them a psychic feel of what’s happening. And how you combine your different sensory inputs at a communication level is how you identify yourself psychically in the multi-dimensional universe. So if you have a psychic identity that relies more on your sense of listening, your audio sense, then you will communicate psychically differently in the universe, you’ll communicate psychically differently with other people on an everyday level.

Your psychic identity isn’t just about how you communicate in this abstract multi-dimensional universe, as if it’s something ‘out there’, separate from your everyday life. Your psychic identity is how you express yourself in every way in every day of your life.

You’re using your psychic identity all the time to reach out to others in your own special sensory way, accessing knowledge from others, interacting with others. Listening and hearing between the words comes more easily to some than others. It’s all part of their special psychic identity. For others it’s intuitively reading between the lines that comes a lot more easily – which is all part of their psychic identity.

Learning about your psychic identity means learning about your senses; learning how your senses operate, learning how your senses operate especially for you. And this can be very, very exciting – it’s a wonderful talent that we all have to sense our way through our day, to sense our way through our lives, to sense our way through our relationships.

Everything you do is influenced by your psychic identity, and this includes all the ways you interact with others. If in your interactions with others you consciously use your psychic identity, if it becomes the tool for how you interact with others in your own particular intuitively psychic way, them what a much more influential and powerful person you will become. Influencing others comes more easily to those people in touch with their psychic identity.

People who are in touch with their psychic identity know how to reach others at other more intuitive levels of communication. They know themselves well enough to be confident that they can read between the lines or they do hear things differently, they do sense things differently. And this is what makes some people stand out in the crowd, because not only do they know they have a psychic identity, but they do know how to use it.

You can train your senses, you can practise your senses in a way that increases your psychic ability, and this confirms and reinforces your psychic identity in how you interact. Getting to know your psychic identity is very important, because in learning more about your psychic identity, you become a more integrated person. There is a secret to going on the journey of learning about your intuitive and psychic ability, because in learning about your psychic ability you get in touch with your psychic senses, and therefore your psychic identity.

How simple it is. You can be more consciously aware of what you are doing already, be more aware of how you already intuitively naturally interact with others, and the reason being that we are using our psychic identity all the time, even at times when we are not aware that we are doing so. Just because we are not conscious that we have a psychic identity, it does not mean we are not still using it to express ourselves in our interactions with others.

In our best interests, in the best interests of how we follow our own psychic destiny, in how we relate to others, in the way we form relationships, it is wise to know about our psychic identity.