How to Get my Ex Back With a Simple Technique
Is there a “magic” method to get my ex back, you ask? It may be hard to believe, but yes, there are words and techniques that will cast a spell and make your ex want to call you back. That’s great, isn’t it? I am going to show you how to do this because it is one of the most frequently asked question from my suscribers that want to know: how to get my ex back.
Ok, so the question is “how do I get my ex back, to return my phone call or text message?” This can be done, but be careful, this is just the begining of a plan, and not a complete strategy. This will get your ex to return a call, but not get her/him back to you (just yet). If you do this without a plan, you can damage your relationship instead of helping it. This is about building a great relationship with your ex once you get back.
First, be aware of what you must never say. A lot of people fall for the usual mistakes, taking them into a very difficult position with theirs ex instead of helping get them back. These are the most common:
The PLEAD. Where the message sounds like “John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.” Of course, this call is not going to be returned. And if it is, you will be in a disadvantage position. You don’t want your ex to call you back because he pities you!
The Emergency call: “Hi, I have an emergency and I need you. Please call me”. Your ex will know this is just a lie to get her/him to call you back, and maybe you will get the call, but this dirty trick will only work once, and to your disadvantage at that. Liying doesn’t help, believe me.
These common approaches simply don’t work, or work opossed to what you want. If you really want your ex attention, there are methods much more effective. Let’s review a simple one.
Use curiosity and self interest. The most powerful forces in the human mind are our curiosity and our self interest. This is the big secret: combine the two and you have an instant “magic” technique. This will work every time!
Call your ex and say something like “Hello, it’s me. I just wanted to tell you that I really appreciate what you did for me. When you get the chance, give me a call so I can tell you personaly.” Can you see how this uses curiosity and self interest in one sweep? Your ex can’t resist calling you back! “What is it that I did?”, “Appreciates what?”, your ex will think. Also, it’s a positive message, so he/she will get in the phone for sure.
Now, prepare mentally for what you are going to say. What did your ex did right for you? Maybe it was some advice or a positive criticism that helped you. Maybe it was when you needed to talk with someone and she/he was there for you. Work on this so you can tell your ex about it. Just remember that you will get a call back and maybe a date, but this is just the beginning of getting your ex back. You need a plan.
With this simple method, you will have your ex calling you, but is only a part of a larger strategy. If you really want to get your ex back, you have to have a plan. You now can have a call and maybe a date. Now you have to work to get your ex back.