How to Manage Your Time when Meeting Women – Part 1
dating can be your best friend.
…OR your worst enemy.
Often, a guy can feel like a slave to his biological need to procreate.
Then there’s that common phrase, “He thinks with his… You know.”
Well it can be hard to NOT think that way if you aren’t physically satisfied.
But men are also goal oriented.
We make our actions to achieve things and influence the world in a positive way.
I’ve personally faced one of the biggest challenges and it is balancing the two – my carnal obsession and achieving my goals.
When you are single, dating can take a lot of time. If you don’t know what you’re doing, women will suck away at your time.
Before you know it, you are spending hours in the park, feeding the birds and cuddling… there’s nothing wrong with spending a quality time with your girlfriend, AS LONG AS YOU DON’T compromise YOUR GOALS IN LIFE.
Goals take time, and so do women.
In fact, it’s the nature of a woman to take up the man’s time – it’s her way of getting you to invest in her. That way if the woman gets pregnant there’s a less chance of you leaving (this comes from our caveman days, so to speak).
Managing your time with women can get really tricky. You see, most guys WANT to give women their time. Men are by nature the “givers.” They like to please women, protect them, and give them good feelings.
There is also a urges in men that completely take over your thoughts.
Both of these things can get of you making the most of your life, your time.
I want you take a moment and ask this to yourself, “WHAT DO I REALLY WANT TO GIVE TO WOMEN?”
Now I know it wasn’t about “money,” or “control over my life,” or “lots of my free time.”
It was probably something like “feeling of safety, good feelings, sexual pleasure, excitement, relaxation, make her smile or feel good about herself, etc.”
There are two ways that I think why men have problems with how they use their time with women.
First, they think that the gifts they REALLY wanted to give aren’t that valuable, making them overcompensate with other stuff – like spending too much money or time to a girl.
Second, men think that they are “getting” something valuable when a woman spends her time with them.
Society brainwashes men to believe that women are a prize to claim, and that there’s some inherent value in a pretty face.
It’s a LIE!
The best thing is to see women for what they are, nothing more, nothing less. They are cute, sometimes fun, but ultimately not that important, AND THEY CAN’T COMPLETE YOUR LIFE!
Now it is really hard to break out of this mental prison of feeling inferior to women.
It is hard to notice the mental habits because these are subtle and you’ve been doing them for years.