Pick Up Artist Secrets: Attracting a “10
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″, then you should read this letter.
But first off, let go waaay back…
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.
That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can’t take my eyes off away from her)…
She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…
Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called “10′s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your “perfect girl.”
First of all, the concept of a “10″ is a myth. There is no such thing as a perfect human being. No woman is more “valuable” just because she looks nicer than other women.
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true “10″ and is the one that’s perfect for you.
The world is full of 10′s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because a lot of guys do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another “level” beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
As what I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me explain it.
You shouldn’t treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.
First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.
Now for the sake of yours, I”ll be giving you a heads up.
There are two types of “10′s.”
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
The common type is the low self-esteem 10′s. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn’t EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
It may sound harsh but I call it like that.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10′s women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually HSE 10′s are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
And here’s another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here’s the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”
You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women – they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently… you’ll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach – whether on the street or in the bar – because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10′s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.
Vin