The numbers of online daters looking for love is increasing. Bringing with it the challenges of frustration and disenchantment with the online dating process. Most people are not meeting the right people or even worse, they’re not getting any results at all. Many are turning to Online dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel.

“The number one reason why people are not getting results or at least the results they expected, is because they are not putting their most authentic Self into their profile. They withhold themselves or worse, lie, and then they wonder why their contradictory profile is giving them wishy-washy results.” Chaszey says. “Every successful results-driven online profile is packed with honesty, strength and the clear picture of who you are and who you truly want as a life partner.”

There are three points to remember when putting together a profile that will produce results:

1. A great screen name Many forget that screen names like “ServeThisGoddess,” “Stud4You,” or “BrokenHearted” may backfire big time. Don’t try to communicate too much and definitely don’t create screen names that allow the reader to read too much between the lines.

2. The right photos “It never amazes to see the type of pictures people put on the Internet. Little do they realize that these pictures are leaving a first impression,” says Chaszey. By all means do not put pictures up in which you wear glasses and a hat displaying your favorite football team, all while having two dead fish hanging from your arms. Reserve these proud photos for your poker night out with your buddies. Pictures that work show your eyes and show your face clearly; and you show a variety of photos ranging from headshots to full body shots (no matter what you look like).

3. Your profile Give an accurate and true picture when describing yourself. People don’t realize that online dating is not a writing contest and no awards are given anywhere to anyone. This is an attempt of the heart to finding that true love that you so deserve. Yet people try to do so by falsefying their profiles, making themselves sound like they want to be, rather than who they truly are. They don’t realize that by giving a false picture of themselves, no matter how great it sounds, never allows for that true love to come into their space. It’s a contradiction and it can only go one way: the wrong way. Instead, be honest, sincere, ethical and authentic. Don’t worry about what others think of you, it’s none of your business. Worry about accurately describing yourself so you can attract that one special person.

4. Be clear when describing the partner you want to attract to you Most people are asking for someone with qualities that they themselves have not mastered yet. Your spouse just dumped you because you cheated and now you make it clear in your profile that you’re looking for someone honest and loyal. It’s a contradiction. Once you get clear with who you are and you’re able to truly look at every aspect of what has created you, then you can honestly and open-eyed look at the person you want to attract to yourself. Only when you can get crystal clear with who you are can you can ever clearer with whom you want.

The Nation’s number 1 Online dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel, is available on a case-by-case basis to help clients produce amazing results with their online dating experience. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.