The Game: “Picking up a “10
Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″ kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.
But first, let’s go waaay back…
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…
She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.
I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart…
Ah, the elusive “10,” the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called “10′s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.
First of all, the concept of a “10″ is a myth. There is no such thing as a perfect human being. No woman is more “valuable” just because she looks nicer than other women.
The only true “10″ is the one that’s perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.
Subsequently, there are a lot of 10′s in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
A woman knows what you’re thinking and sees you as shallow.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.
As I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me clear this up.
You shouldn’t treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.
First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.
Now for the benefits of yours, I’ll give you a heads up.
The so-called “10′s” has two different types.
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
Low self esteem 10′s are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
It may sound harsh but I call it like that.
These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10′s women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
HSE 10′s usually have good attitudes, have a direction in life, are intelligent, and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
And here’s another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here’s the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.
Being the best man you can be and being a “male 10″ is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women – they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently… you’ll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach – whether on the street or in the bar – because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are plenty of 10′s out there waiting for you.
Don’t waste you’re time waiting for nothing.
Vin