Useful Mindsets for Disarming Male Competition-II
Another thing that I want to talk about is the idea that the other guy can be more “dominant” than you are.
The concept of the alpha male is completely outdated. In the caveman days, the alpha male had real power – he had access to resources like food, and was physically stronger, so he could beat up competitors.
But ask yourself if those powers are relevant today. Every man with a source of income can survive on his own – if you’re reading this, you probably have access to food and shelter. You’re all set.
Plus, in this modern world it is irrelevant to use the physical strength just to beat people up. It’s illegal.
You’ll always end up losing if you attack another person because the police always win.
If you mind doing that, you are LETTING RANDOM MEN TO STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!
Pardon my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???
It makes me mad- I recall all the women I missed out on because I was worried about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that other guys are dealing with same crap!
When you’re on your deathbed, you are going to look back on all the things you did and didn’t do. How painful would it be to say “I didn’t meet that girl because I was scared of another guy,” or “there were so many beautiful women I could’ve enjoyed, but I didn’t even try because I saw them TALKING to another guy.”
I don’t want you to be like that.
So let’s understand it deeply. Seeing the other guy as more dominant means you don’t really understand dominance.
There’s a better focus. Rather than to see yourself NOT dominant when you are comparing who is more dominant between you and the other guy.
To be dominant, you must first THINK like a dominant man. And dominant men don’t think about who is dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is they are doing or want.
So when you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Focus on the girls instead of worrying who is the dominant between the two of you.
It’s proven to be a waste of time if I have to acknowledge other guys. Out of 10 women, 9 of them doesn’t even know the guy – they just meet him.
Or if they do, he’s a friend of ONE of the girls, and the rest barely know him.
It’s seldom for women to go out with a guy they are dating – normally they will bring a guy that is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.
And also, if that guy IS with one of the girls, that means he’s NOT with the other girls – they are fair game.
When you are concerned with who’s the alpha male, you are by definition NOT the alpha male. In fact, it’s questionable whether alpha males truly exist in the modern world.
Have your focus in a USEFUL place and don’t assume anything. And don’t let some random guy prevent you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!