True love and conflict don’t go together well. Conflict is a sign that true love may be disappearing. It really pays off to learn to reduce conflict in a relationship.

Understand, first, that some conflict is healthy in a relationship. And it is to be expected. Learning to fight fair and go for win win can help you to argue in a healthy way. Shows like Dr Phil can give lots of advice about this.

But what if you could stop a lot of conflict before it ever got started? Could you keep true love alive if you cut the conflict in your relationship by over 50%?

There is a way to stop conflict that is powerful, effective, and you dont need to take a class on conflict to do it. Even better, you can put it to use in your relationship to minimize conflict starting just minutes after you finish this article. Its that simple and powerful.

This method is a secret that almost no one talks about. Are you ready to learn this powerful tool to stop conflict before it starts? A remarkable way to stop conflict before it begins is to PLAY MORE with your mate. Play is the fun secret that can kill conflict before it begins. Studies have shown a direct correlation between play and conflict!!

At the start of your relationship, you should remember that you played a lot with your mate. You spent time together going to movies, out to dinner, dancing, all kinds of fun things. When we start out, there is a lot more play than fighting.

But then time passes and the honeymoon phase of our relationship wears off. We have jobs and responsibilities and burdens and kids. Over time the play can begin to disappear from our relationship. And then the fighting and conflict will begin to increase.

So a powerful thing you can do to reverse this trend and feel more true love again is to simply play more in your love life. You don’t need a ton of play. Just a few minutes a day of sexy hugs or gong for a walk around the neighborhood together after dinner can do it. Have at least one date night a week. Add more play into your relationship and see if you start to reduce the conflict and increase the true love.